





We hope this update finds you well. Let’s recap the happenings since last blog, shall we?
1) Anela is growing so fast! People warn you that kids grow up quick almost incessantly but nothing really preps you for what it actually feels like. Take a look at these pictures…
Anela then…

Anela now…

It’s not even the same little girl!
Wearing sunglasses indoors. Having hair...and an attitude. Maybe I should say personality instead of attitude because she is so sweet. Sheesh...
Sometimes when I can’t sleep at night I will look at old pictures (a.k.a. pictures that are only a few months old…) of her and am constantly blown away by how much she’s grown. Ali should be emailing or posting Facebook a link to some recent pictures of our little Anela soon.
2) We celebrated Alison’s birthday. It was a fun and pretty low key celebration. Ali’s two requests were: a) potato skins for dinner and b) an ice cream cake from DQ. Done and done! The next day, I took the day off from work and we went to lunch at Feng Asian Bistro. The food was great and the service was even better. I felt like there were at least 5 different servers checking in on us and making sure the food was good.
Here is what Ali had.
One especially awesome thing about this lunch was that it was just Ali and I. Anela spent some time with her little friend Jude and his mommy Jill (thanks again, Jill!) and gave Ali and I a couple hours to hang out and be together. It was really refreshing, and great to have some quality time with the love of my life. After lunch, we scooped Anela up and all went down to Claytime, a place where you can paint unfinished ceramics (a la Color Me Mine, etc.). I thought it would be cool for us to make something that Anela could help us with. After searching through their inventory, we found a little bowl. Here is the work in progress.
Anela loved getting her foot painted. She did not, however, love me and one of the workers trying to evenly squash her foot onto the bowl. Screaming and then immediate foot washing occurred.
All in all, it was a fun two days celebrating my wife. I continue to question where the heck I would be without her and continue to appreciate the blessing that it is to have her as my partner, best friend, support, and the mother of my child. I love you, Alison. PS- You make a killer chai tea that always gets me through the day. Thank you.
3) Ali and Anela are keeping busy. Besides the day to day business of being a stay at home mom and baby combo, these two are always on the go! Ali is babysitting Ethan on Mondays (with the help of Anela, of course). They also go to 2 different baby/mom groups and that has been great for both of them. One is a little more focused on baby mobility and improving in that department and the other seems to be more mama focused providing support, connection, and a time out for moms. Anela continues to grow into a social butterfly at these groups and Ali gets to make new friends and meet others who might also be new to the area. Anela also has swim classes on Saturday mornings. It is really cool that the pool is just across the parking lot from our apartment. I don’t expect Anela to be a Dara Torres after these sessions but they are really helping her get comfy in the water. This seems really important given where her grandparents are (Hawaii…ocean, Minnesota…lakes). Here she is in action…sort of…
Ali, as usual, is always finding more projects to fill her plate. Whether it’s researching the best way to care for Anela (i.e. reading up on new foods for her, looking up at home remedies for the care of her cloth diapers, comparing the best baby gates for our stairs, etc.) or some design work, she stays active. I don’t know how she does it, but she does. I am always impressed but seldom surprised.
4) The weather out here has been nuts. If you have been watching the news you have seen that snow has been crushing the east coast. We haven’t had a big storm in a while but the ones we were having were causing school closures at least one day a week, for a while. Kind of awesome for school closures, kind of unawesome for how much snow there was out there. There are still HUGE mounds of snow in a lot of shopping center lots, the athletic fields here, and on the side of the roads. Some people from around here have said that this is the worst winter they have seen since ’95. Bummer for us but here’s to hoping for a real nice spring and summer (after the melt and potential flooding, of course…).
5) Dale came out to visit again. It was a quick trip but the Pau household was still so happy to have him here. Dale even watched Anela so Ali and I could have a night out. It came at a time we really needed it so that was such a blessing. We went out for some steak (always good, right?) and talked for forever. It was real nice.
Thanks again, Dale!
6) We are going on a cruise in the beginning of March with Ali’s folks and brothers. It is going to be amazing and we will have one of the most travelled babies by the time she can walk. Here are some things I will be looking forward to (in no particular order):
-Time with family
-Time with Ali while family watches Anela
-Getting some sun (this one is long overdue)
-Going to places I have never been (Florida and Cozumel)
-Visiting the casino and the vengeance I intend on taking for all the other times that casinos have robbed me (of both a good time and finances)
-Having people bring me drinks whilst I lay in the sun half asleep
-Reading something that’s not “academic” or for work (I bought a new book for $1 about James Brown and how he saved the soul of America)
-Attempting to take a family portrait with wife and Anela Boo
-Bringing back a unique liquor to add to my collection here (probably something from Cozumel?)
I want to pack already. I am so anxious!
7) In other travel news...we are headed to Hawaii the end of May. We are so pumped to introduce our Anela to Hawaii and have her meet her family there. My mom reminds me that Anela is the only grandbaby she has yet to hold. We are coming, Grandma! It will be a fun time and we are even planning a little birthday party for Anela. More on that in the near future…
8) I am just putting a deposit down for a new tattoo this summer in Hawaii. It will be done in the traditional Polynesian method. Here’s some info on it…
The guy in the video is actually the same guy who will be doing my tattoo. Crazy, right? Well, to cut the crazy in half, my friend Buck who has done all but one of my tattoos is coming to Hawaii and getting something “tapped” as well. It will be so fun to see him again (last time was June) and get these tattoos done. Super excited about this adventure and to have a good friend there is a huge bonus.
I think that is about it for now, folks. Thanks for sticking around and checking in on us.
PEACE,
Tyler
Well, well, well…
The ladies and I are long overdue for an update. A thousand pardons….
It has been quite the past few months. Here’s a quick and random recap…
· We moved to Worcester, MA for my job at Assumption College. Here is the POD that we unpacked and squeezed into our apartment. It was no easy task but Alison made it happen. It’s a great campus! There’s a duck pond here that we are excited to take Anela to once she can throw bread to the ducks. People here have fallen in love with our little hapa girl…and rightfully so. Everybody wants to hold her despite her constant drool.
· We took Anela to the zoo…but she fell asleep once we got there and stayed asleep. Bummer. There were these little piglets that I thought she would have loved. We will have to do a redo on that one.
· I’ve taken Anela to a football game or two. Sometimes she’s been interested and at other times distracted by the kids running around or more concerned about grabbing/climbing the net that catches the balls after field goals.
· Grandma and Grandpa Ninmann have come out to visit us. It was great to have them here. Anela LOVED spending time with them and it even gave Ali and I a chance to go out to a movie. Grandpa Dale spoiled Anela with long daily walks around campus.
· Ali has converted Anela to cloth diapers. I really didn’t know much about the process but as usual Alison schooled me and taught me all about them. How they work, how much you could potentially save per child by using reusable diapers, and even what brands
· We went to Salem, MA to check it out especially because of all the history relative to the witch trials. The town felt really old which was cool other than the stroller barely fitting down the sidewalks with all the people. We thought that we would go in early October thinking that it wouldn’t be too crowded and we’d avoid all the Halloween crowds…we were wrong. There was a ton of people there. I don’t know if it was just me but there was a “creepy” vibe about the city. It could’ve been me playing the whole witch thing up but there were witch supply stores (not supply stores where one would purchase a witch when you run out, rather, where a witch would go to purchase witching supplies), haunted houses, and people in spooky garb (who were not working at the attractions) everywhere. It didn’t creep me out enough to not have some lunch there. We ate at Salem Beer Works. Awesome food and I had the Witch City Red. Pretty good beer that was similar to a Killians.
· We took Anela to a pumpkin patch to pick up a pumpkin and take a hayride. We did get a pumpkin but the weather had other plans about the hayride. Another redo?
· Wife is also going to a mommys group once a week and making some new friends there. She and her new mommy posse have gone into Boston for some adventuring, gone out to some of the best outlets (in Wrentham) for some shopping, and have gone on some long walks with the little ones for chilling purposes. Ali makes friends no matter where we go so it’s awesome to see her making some connections.
· Alison has made a purchase that she has long wanted…a camera! We are still figuring out how to use it best but Ali is now officially snap happy. Like father, like daughter huh? In any case, look for (hopefully) better pictures in the months to come.
I feel like Anela deserves her own set of bullet points. Here goes…
·This girl is GROWING like a weed! She was born at 6.5 pounds and 19.5 inches long and is now 16 pounds 3 ounces pounds and 27 inches long.
· She has two little teeth on her bottom jaw. She is so very willing to bite your finger if you aren’t paying attention.
· She loves to stand, assisted of course.
· Her favorite big toy is this jump-a-roo thing. She gets almost out-of-breath excited about standing and jumping like a big girl.
· Anela has started eating baby food (which super mom Ali makes for her). So far she has done rice cereal, oatmeal, acorn squash, carrots, bananas and mango. I think she was pretty done with boring rice cereal and oatmeal once she got to try veggies. I think she’s done some pears, peas, and apples more recently. Once I figure out how to post it, I will share a video of Anela doing a good job of feeding herself.
· Anela went on her first airplane ride to visit Grandma and Grandpa Ninmann in Minnesota. Ali says she did pretty well. She will need to be a good traveler considering we have family and friends all over the country to visit eventually.
We went to Wilmington, DE for Thanksgiving. Ali’s cousin Julie and her family are there and graciously hosted us. Ali will have an update on that…really soon. With the holidays in mind, we want to say thanks to our family and friends. We are so blessed to know you and we are the people we are because of you. Thanks so much for being there. Thanks for reading, too.
PEACE,
Tyler
After a long and arduous job search, I have landed a position at Assumption College. WOO HOO! I will be an Area Coordinator in the area of campus known as “The Valley.” It will be a great experience and I am really excited about the folks I get to work with. The position will be a cool transition and I have the opportunity to supervise Resident Directors and Resident Assistants. It’s a similar sized school to Whitworth, it’s faith-based, and it’s in beeeeeeeeautiful Worcester, MA. Yup..I said that. Which brings us to our next point…
It is bittersweet…but we are moving from Spokane, WA to Worcester, MA. Ali and I packed up a POD (an awesome way to move) and then loaded up the Jetta and are making our way across the country. We are in Minnesota right now, kind of the half way point, taking a break and taking time with the Ninmann clan. We stopped in Mitchell, SD on the way over to see the Mulcahys who had just moved there. It was good to see familiar faces on our travels. Spokane has been ULTRA kind to us over the years and there are a lot of people we will miss. The McGonigals, the Mulcahys, the Mulders, the Mandevilles, Buck, Felix and the whole Mr. Dons crew, Whitworth, Spokane Community College, the amazing students that we’ve worked with (Warren staff…you know who you are) and all the other people who have made our time there so pleasant. You have made it hard to leave but know that we are taking you with us. We cannot thank you enough for what you’ve done. If we ever make it back to town, it’s time for Thai Bamboo.
Today Ali and I attended Pre-Birth Class. There was a lot of information, and a lot, a lot of visuals. Phew. We tried some massage techniques for "coaches" (as the fathers were referred to) to perform on the moms. I think that was Alis favorite part of the whole day. My favorite part was when we got to lay on the floor and practice breathing and helping the women to relax. It took every bit of effort not to doze off at this part of the class. Our instructor shut off all the lights and played these ocean wave sounds while we laid down. This also happened at the very end of a 7 or 8-hour class so...the tiredness was setting in something serious by then. It was the perfect storm. Don’t worry…I stayed awake and absorbed everything I need to know to be a good “coach” during the labor and delivery. All set, right? Well maybe not totally but I do feel a little more prepared than I was before.
It was interesting to be in a room full of expecting parents and see the excitement/fear on everyones face as our instructor (who seemed to love her job more than she knew how to contain) discussed epidurals, back labor, crowning, the babys’ first poop and its creosote like resemblance, and why the baby will look like a conehead/alien when it comes out. Lots to take in, you know? It was reassuring for me to know that I am not the only one freaking out a little bit.
Anyways, class is complete. Doctors appointment this past week was good, as usual. Ali and Kiki are good. I am good. Things are great.
PEACE
PS- My tattoo appointment got cancelled...bummer.
PSS- I will be working my hardest to get Ali to do the next update...I think.





